When we're chronically stressed, our bodies can get stuck in a perpetual "fight or flight" mode, on high alert and ready to react to any perceived threat (real or not). This can lead to problems like insomnia, as our bodies are just too revved up to relax and fall asleep.
For people struggling with chronic stress and the sleeplessness that comes with it, alcohol is a common coping mechanism. However, alcohol prevents REM sleep, the deepest and most restful stage of sleep, vital for healthy brain function, memory, and mood.
And when you add uppers like caffeine and cocaine into the mix (because you’re always tired at work), you worsen the problem by forcing the body into more and more irregular sleep patterns.
Of course, this kind of cycle isn’t sustainable.
Eventually, the body develops a tolerance to the stimulant effects of these substances. And you end up right back where you started… but worse off… more exhausted, more stressed out, and less able to regulate emotions.
The bottom line is, if you're struggling to cope with stress and sleeplessness, alcohol and other substances are not the answer.
So what can you do to calm yourself at the end of a long day, de-stress, and get restful sleep?
1. Create a settle-down routine BEFORE you arrive home. This could include a walk in nature, a drive with relaxing music, a puzzle, or anything else you find calming. The idea is to lower your stress levels after work before getting caught up in your evening routines.
2. Create a BEFORE-bed routine. Turn off your screen, read a magazine or book, listen to a podcast, sit outside by the fire pit, shower or have a bath, drink some caffeine-free tea, reflect on your accomplishments, and if you're religious, pray.
3. Put your phone out of arm's reach when it's time to sleep. While our phones can be a fantastic tool for connection and information, many of the apps we install on them are DESIGNED to keep us hooked. Make your bedtime a phone-free zone.
Sleep is NECESSARY to manage not only your stress but your overall health.
But if you've become reliant on substances to manage your stress and sleep, it's time to reach out for help.
Sorobey Psychology and Sorobey Assessments are here to help individuals and workplaces in Alberta get the preventative education, assessments, and support they need when facing substance abuse.
Our services are confidential AND we're a DM or phone call away.